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Forum topic by USCJeff posted 303 days ago 143 views 0 times favorited 10 replies Add to Favorites
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USCJeff

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303 days ago

Not at all a woodworking post, but I feel that I know a lot of you through what you’ve shared here at Lumberjocks. I’ve heard about families, children, and other things that you all value. My wife has a close friend that she worked with for several years as RN’s in a PICU. The friend had a baby a week after we had our second child, so they went through their pregnancies together at work. That was this time last year. Their daughter died after a blanket blocked her breathing while sleeping between her parents. All I could think of was my one year old son born a week earlier and how I would react. Puts it all in perspective. I guess I am walking away from that tragedy with the feeling that we need to remember what’s important and not let temporal and frivolous things distract from them. Kiss your kids!

-- Jeff, South Carolina

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Karson

13165 posts in 928 days


303 days ago

I’m with you Jeff. Love them and hold them close.

-- Karson Southern Delaware karson_morrison@bigfoot.com

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forkboy

48 posts in 303 days


303 days ago

This kind of thing used to scare the ** out of me when my son was very young (2 1/2 now), I’m not sure he liked me poking him in his sleep every hour or so over night but at least I knew he was still ok. Very frightening thought.

-- Perth, Australia

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Douglas Bordner

2707 posts in 592 days


303 days ago

Thanks, Jeff for the reminder.

-- "Bordnerizing" perfectly good lumber for over a decade.

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IowaWoodcrafter

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303 days ago

All of my kids are grown now but I still remember those days of checking on them in the middle of the night. I now have other things to worry about. I have one son in the Navy serving aboard the Kitty Hawk in Japan. My youngest son will be leaving to Great Lakes Naval Training Center on February 20th. My daughter also spent seven years in the Navy, also on the Kitty Hawk in Japan. Though she isn’t in the Navy any more she lives in Corpus Christi, Texas while the wife and I are stranded in Iowa, (I love that term, it’s the name of a song by Manfred Mann’s Earth Band). I worry about all of them.

-- Owen Johnson - aka IowaWoodcrafter

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rikkor

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303 days ago

Some things are just more important than others. It keeps you from thinking of cutting a piece of oak an inch too short as a real tragedy.

-- Maplewood, MN

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MsDebbieP

12248 posts in 688 days


302 days ago

yah.. and those “lazy teenagers”?? they are those same precious miracles…..... what a gift we have been given to care for..
(sympathies to the family of the little one)

-- "Functional WoodArt" by Debbie, Canada (http://www.execulink.com/~yohan)

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TomFran

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302 days ago

Jeff,

That is very sad about your friend’s child. I can’t imagine how hard it would be to get over something like that. It truly is good to be able to put yourself in the place of others, and then “count your blessings.” Everyday that we take another breath, and don’t get into a car accident, and don’t fall off a roof, and don’t cut our fingers in our power tools is another opportunity to thank God for His grace and goodness to us.

-- Tom, Surfside Beach, SC - Romans 8:28

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GaryK

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302 days ago

Great point!

-- Gary, East TX -- The longest journey begins with a single step.

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Mario

731 posts in 579 days


302 days ago

Perspective, It is soo easy to loose it isn’t it.

Tahnk you for the reminder.

-- Hope Never fails

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robbi

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302 days ago

So, so sad. They must be blaming themselves. All you can do is reassure them and be there to support them. I can’t even imagine that kind of pain, even with my girls all grown, it would be unbearable.

-- robbi

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