Most of us who are a little wary of the web so we use anonymous membership names. I suspect that the ones we use are often inspired by a combination of letters that mean something to us or whatever the website will accept after trying out the ones we really want.
it would be a lot easier and more social if we knew your real first name or even a fake first name just to make it more normal when we want to use your name in comments or whatever. You can use your first name on your signature line if you want, which will then automatically show up on all your posts. Many already do it and I hope you will too.
This is just a suggestion, so If you still don’t want to give us your first name anyway, I will respect that, and no criticism is intended.
-- Mike, an American living in Norway.