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first of all , i would like to thank all of you , that consoled me , and my family .
on the passing of our brother , joe . i plan on sending them each a copy of your heartfelt words and input .
i hadn’t yet got to process this event , until i started reading all your responces .
it brought light to me , and opened me up and helped me to process this event , as i’m sure it will for them .
also i sent some pm”s out to some of you , and hope you can forgive my somewhat dark demeanor in them .
that being said , please no more condolances , we did that allready !
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when i finally got joe’s ashes , in a cardboard box , the size of a six pack of beer ( some how appropriate ) !
i thought to take them to the rio grande gorge ( smaller than the grand canyon , but just down the road )
and ask God to watch over him , and let the wind have him .
then our brother star wanted some to take to mexico , were joe was born , and have his prayer there .
our sister judy was fine with this , but couldn’t do anything because of her health , but her son james wanted
some to take to a spiritual lake near here , to do his own prayer with his son , for joe and another uncle of the sons
toghether .
well , i suddenly had to expand my horizon , and instead of sending joe in a jar to each of them , i decided to make a box for him instead , and hold him there until everyone was ready to do their thing .
one thing led to another , and the other night , when a friend came to visit , and was watching some thing on tv
i got up and went into the shop , and this time with no plan , just got all the exotics out , and ripped some off of each
and procedded to make this.
there are 4 boxes here , all bookmatched together , tops , sides inside top and bottoms .
because of the process , each is some how individual .
my thoughts are that each of us will get to do our goodbyes in our own way ,
and have a reminder of joe that is quieter than he was ?
i might even ask him to guard my money in mine !
this all just happened on it’s own , and i am very greatfull for the way it is working out .
each box has sides and ends that continue around each box ,and all together ,
the boxes have the sides continuing around all 4 boxes .

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so lets get on with the movie !
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this is the first step , whether this or any other cut and switch project .
make boards the same size , whatever woods you use , or weather you stay with the grain ,
or alternate it or the colors of the wood .
double stick tape the boards together ,
i always start out with boards larger than finnished size , as saw kerfs eat up some of the dimensions ,
and you want to recut and square letter .
now just cut however you like , in this case i did a starburst from the corner .
now switch every other one ,
you still have 2 boards , just reverses of each other ,
but with the same ” book match ” and grain !
up until this point in time , i had made many matching
boxes this way , ( for a married couple , or for sisters or brothers ) .
but when i walked into the shop the next morning i realized that
i could make 4 of them by spliting each in half .
wow ! 4 tops !
glueing up the ” puzzle ” .
after cleaning up (sanding ) , and recutting ,
i added the ” sun ” to the corner , and recut again to make everything square and even .
forgot to take photo of this .
now i am spliting the pieces on the tablesaw to score both sides for the bandsaw
to track in . ( note : keep the same face against the fence for this )
as my band saw dosn’t have resaw abilitys yet .
also note stop on outside of piece , this helps keep the piece straight and from wobbleing .
now for the box sides and ends ,
here i used black walnut and cherry ,
as that is what i could find at the lumber store .
after glueing up and cleaning and dressing the boards ,
rip them into 2 boards , and dressing them also
the important thing here is to mark the corners of the box to be
on the face on both ends ,
and in the bandsaw cut to be parallel to the sides of the board ,
if you dont do this , you wind up with ” pointy corners ” .
hold your hands as if praying , and keeping tips and heel toghether
open them apart to form a square ,
this is how the sides and ends are tacken from the boards .
1 side and one end from 1 board , the other side and end from the other 
with all parts ready cut to size , i rabbet the top and bottom sides of the
sides and ends , and the ends of the sides only , not the ends ,
as they fit into end of side .
cut top and bottom to fit also .
this is just how i do it , anyway you make your box is fine ,
it is your statement !
lay out everything in its proper place making sure
that parts are not mixed or spun around .
sand all insides now . .
and glue together , trying not to run glue inside ,
as it is a pain to clean later .
so thats about it , as you can see ,
i am the lazyest carpenter i know ,
i look for the simplest way to do something ,
and let the tools do the work.
the rest is just cutting open and oiling the inside (watco )
and applying some stop hinges from lee valley ( they are not here yet ) ,
so thank you for this memorable experience ,
and bless you all !
-- david ,new mexico ,allheart





























35 comments so far
Loucarb
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posted 212 days ago
Those are fantastic, great gesture.
DaN
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posted 212 days ago
beautiful work … you amazing with the bandsaw
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littlecope
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posted 212 days ago
Bravo!!! Bravo!!!
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a1Jim
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posted 212 days ago
Hey Bud
Thanks for the great how too .
peace to your whole family during your upcoming activities
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Todd A. Clippinger
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posted 212 days ago
Beautiful, absolutely beautiful.
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rosewood
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posted 212 days ago
wow,,, i should save the way you make it on my file,
its always that simple but great result, do you have another room for me to stay for a week? learn all your works,lol.
thank you for sharing with us.
Cheers,
Rosewood.
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dustbunny
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posted 212 days ago
David,
This says to me that there is unity in celebration. All of you have different plans to celebrate your brothers life, and each of you has a piece of that celebration. VERY nice work. Congratulations on your closure.
Lisa
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scrappy
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posted 212 days ago
Very impressive. Great inspiration and fantastic proccess! Thank you for the step by step.
Keep up the fantastic work.
Scrappy
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James
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posted 212 days ago
Patron my friend you make some wonderful projects, this one no exception. Great use of your gift to remedy the situation. May the lord continue to channel his grace through you always.
-- James, Bluffton, IN
trifern
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posted 212 days ago
Gorgeous work and a wonderful tribute. Thank you for sharing.
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bowyer
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posted 212 days ago
Wow David!! These boxes look great both together and individually!! Thanks for posting the build along as well.
Rick
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spanky46
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posted 212 days ago
Thank you for sharing your skill, life and heart!
P.S. Its nice how you show your feet/toes to give us a size perspective! LOL
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ellen35
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posted 212 days ago
David, these are spectacular!
Ellen
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degoose
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posted 212 days ago
I agree!
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Splinterman
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posted 212 days ago
With your skills, you have enabled your whole family to equally share your brother…....outstanding David.
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Gary
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posted 212 days ago
That’s quite a post David. I didn’t see any of your earlier posts though I’m happy y’all have found peace.
Fantastic workmanship and a fine tribute to your brother.
Pax,
Gary
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CharlieM1958
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posted 212 days ago
David, this is just too amazing for words.
A great project, both in terms of woodworking, and as a tribute to your brother.
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jockmike2
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posted 212 days ago
awesome!
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Kent Shepherd
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posted 212 days ago
Incredible!
Thank you
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ND2ELK
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posted 212 days ago
Very impressive work! Sounds like you came up with the perfect solution for the family. Very informative how to do on the boxes. Thanks for posting.
God Bless
tom
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Bradford
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posted 212 days ago
That is an awesome build. Thanks for the steps, very appreciated.
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SCOTSMAN
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posted 212 days ago
Great workmanship My dear friend Patron you are an inspiration to all here keep it up and have fun Gosh did I just say what I think I said LOL well done anyway your boxes are stunning .Alistair
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Mely5862
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posted 212 days ago
A fine tribute. We should all be so fortunate to leave such an inpact on all who knew us. Great job as always
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posted 212 days ago
David
As said above your skill with a bandsaw is unrivaled a great piece and nice combination of woods
Andy
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Don K.
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posted 212 days ago
David,
My jaw dropped when I saw these and how you did them…very beautiful…and they will surely become family heirlooms for generations to come.
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posted 211 days ago
thank you all !
your comments and heart felt input ,
has helped me to procces all this emotional vaccumn .
i also did allot of sleeping when i finished posting this piece ,
and the last one , with all the consolations .
i have read a lot of biographys about the masters ,
and was saddened and inspired by some of their lives .
yet they kept on the path , and left a legacy we follow to this day ,
poor beethoven that coudnt hear , yet left some of the most beautifull music of all time .
leonardo da vinci in forced exile for 40 years , shunned and ridiculed .
galileo , imprisoned for seeing the beauty of the universe around him , and sharing it .
confusius , spent his whole life trying to help his strugling people , who died in poverty ,alone and unloved .
the doctor in vienna ( can’t think of his name ) , who spent 40 years telling doctors about germs , at a time
when 1/3 of the women in the world died giving birth , only to be ignored , he died in debt alone ,
frozen to death under a bridge , homeless .
so this has all come to me at times , and i do my best to work my way through it , and stay the course .
i certainly don’t see myself in the masters catagory , but i take inspiration from them ,
” if they can do that with so little , i can at least listen , and maybe do something new in me “
up until i meet you folks here , i have been mostly alone .
and figured that the only important thing to get ready for was my own passing ,
and the question i expect from God – ” what did you do with the life i gave you ” ?
well , Lord , i made some mistakes , i took some wrong roads . i helped those around me the best i could ,
and i finally learned to help myself .
this thank you may be rambleing somewhat , and is how i learn these things that help me ,
i go where no man has gone before , ( or evidently needs to ) and bring back what i find
and share it in my work and in my person .
as you have all opened up your hearts to me ,
i open mine to you ,
and say
thank you !
-- david ,new mexico ,allheart
JMG
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posted 211 days ago
an impressive work of art. thank you for this post, i am amazed at your craftsmanship
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cabinetmaster
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posted 211 days ago
David, What an inspiration. Your family should be very proud of you. I think Joe was watching over you and giving you some guidance. Beautiful job.
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Karson
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posted 211 days ago
David: A great box and a wonderfull view of life and what it means. May you always be bless and may you then share it with others.
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mtkate
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posted 211 days ago
Beautiful. Creative.
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Hi Patron, I dont post a lot as i am in South Africa and i dont follow the time diffs but all i want to say is i also lost my brother 2 years ago and we were business parteners and best friends and i understand your grief.Your woodwork is a gift from God because i can see your talent and passion which you put into it, do not stop because you are reaching and blessing people. Blessings
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Breathtaking, gorgeous work. So sorry about your brother.
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I am speechless, that doesn’t happen very often. <grin> The woodworking is fantastic and the tribute is moving to say the least. Your siblings are blessed to have such a wonderful piece of work to remember your brother and a brother like you! Thank you for sharing the work and the story.
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Wonderful work and wonderful result, all for a good reason. It is a good example of how our work relates to ourselves and those we love.
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Joe Lyddon
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posted 168 days ago
AWESOME!
Thank you!
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