The Loss of a Son!

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Blog entry by olddutchman posted 01-07-2011 04:01 AM 4686 reads 0 times favorited 47 comments Add to Favorites Watch

This will be very short. This is for Every father of a child 8 to 80. Stop and tell Your Child that You love them! Don’t take time to be, or stay mad at Them for something that happened years before. I have two grown up Children, Tomorrow, I will bury one of My Own! Almost too hard to bear! Except the Saving Grace, is Holding Me UP We had a good relationship. I Am gratefull. Tell how much You care, and Love them. I will never hold My Son again! Tell Them Now!!!

-- Saved, and so grateful, consider who Created it ALL!!!

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#1 posted 01-07-2011 04:05 AM

A parent should never out live their children…. prayers your way….

I recommend this book On Death and Dying, by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

-- “Once more unto the breach, dear friends...” Henry V - Act III, Scene I

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#2 posted 01-07-2011 04:06 AM

God bless you, You are in my prayers.

-- My favorite projects were firewood bound

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#3 posted 01-07-2011 04:09 AM

That’s not supposed to happen this way but it does. I am very sorry for your loss. Not much words can say but have faith and you will get through it.

-- Bob K. East Northport, NY

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#4 posted 01-07-2011 04:12 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. I tell my sons everyday that I love them.
My prayers go out to you and your family during this hard time.

-- Gary; Marysville, MI...Involve your children in your projects as much as possible, the return is priceless.

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#6 posted 01-07-2011 04:17 AM

I am sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and yours.
God Bless you.

-- Mel,

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#7 posted 01-07-2011 04:32 AM

My heart is with you. I can’t imagine your pain. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

-- Duane, Iowa

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#8 posted 01-07-2011 04:33 AM

I’m sorry for your loss and you and your family are in our prayers. May god bless your son, you and your family!

-- Proud Supporter of Homes For Our Troops

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#9 posted 01-07-2011 04:42 AM

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

-- Just a small fish in a big pond trying to make a difference one job at a time.

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#10 posted 01-07-2011 04:46 AM

God be with you
and your family
in this your time of need

cherish the memories

-- david - only thru kindness can this world be whole . If we don't succeed we run the risk of failure. Dan Quayle

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#11 posted 01-07-2011 05:10 AM

Sorry for your loss, wishing you strength and peace

-- Scott "Some days you are the big dog, some days you are the fire hydrant"

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#12 posted 01-07-2011 05:23 AM

“I Love You” is a fraze you hear in my home countless times a day. Thank you for reminding me to make it “Countless + 1”....

I am so very sorry for your loss and I wont even pretend to know what you are going through. I hope and pray that I will never ever have to bare that pain. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

-- Dan ~ Texarkana, Tx.

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#13 posted 01-07-2011 05:24 AM

very sorry for your loss. Your son will be in our prayers as well as you and your family

--, Rick Kruse, Grand Rapids, MI

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#14 posted 01-07-2011 05:26 AM

May the Peace that passes understanding be with you and your’s.

-- Gen 8:22 While the earth remaineth, seedtime and harvest, and cold and heat, and summer and winter, and day and night shall not cease.

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#15 posted 01-07-2011 05:34 AM

Very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. The loss of a child is the hardest thing a parent can possibly go thru. I know your pain and sorrow.
I lost my only son in 1991 because of the life style he chose. You are right about telling them you care. Do it everyday every time you feel the urge, let them know you are there!
My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family.

Bob G.

-- BobG, Lowell, Arkansas--------My goal in life is to be the kind of person my dog thinks I am! Make more saw dust!!

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