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Plans Laid for the Next Project: A Mission Style Casket

Blog entry by Mark A. DeCou posted 962 days ago 566 reads 0 times favorited 7 comments Add to Favorites Watch

I’ve been pretty BLOG quiet lately. I have used about all of the computer time I could get responding to personal emails the past couple of weeks, so I haven’t had the chance to Blog lately. I am thrilled to see such growth in the site over the past couple of weeks. Martin has his hands full, and he tells me that there are new exciting things coming. Thanks for this vision of yours Martin, we are all enjoying your hard work.

I thought I would break the BLOG silence by telling you about a phone call that I received tonight laying out the plans for my next project. It will be a Mission Casket for my Uncle John. He is fighting liver cancer, and his time is coming to an end without a miracle. I offered to build his casket late last week, a project I have tackled one time before (http://lumberjocks.com/projects/47), and he responded that he would appreciate having me do it for him. He gave his life to Christ many years ago, so he is encouraged that his promotion is coming soon, although he is sad, as we all are, to see him be so sick and with such a dire diagnosis.

My Uncle John has been a fan of Mission style furniture since his mother (my grandma) bought some old pieces at a garage sale in the 1950’s and restored them for the family home. I have her Dining Room Buffet now, and Uncle John has the round eating table. The Dining Chairs have been split up and are cherished by others in the family.

I was laying in bed thinking about his situation last week, and it dawned on me that I ought to offer to build him a Mission Style Casket. Something special that you won’t see in a funeral home selection room. I hope it turns out as nice as I picture it in my mind. Sort of a cross between Stickley and the Greene Brother’s work. Who said that the Thorsen Table Challenge was only good for tables?

Building a casket is real ministry-type work for me, as I am involved in the process of the funeral and the family, other than just showing up for the family reunion and eating the pot luck dinner. I like it that way, and “working” in the midst of emotion can actually help me focus on the right things. I am a “worker”, and I deal with stress best by working, and drinking diet soda pops, and some M&M’s (that’s another blog). I restored a Corvette over a girlfriend break up one time, and then restored a ‘74 Harley during a marriage crisis (different girl), and I have done many other projects over the years that have helped me deal with the emotions of whatever the situation brought.

My Uncle John has been a good friend and encourager over the years, and it is an honor to build his casket. I will post photos and the story when the I have it finished, so I hope you will stay tuned.

I am nearing the end of the church project I have worked on since the first of the year. It has grown some during the course of the job as I have picked up some more work to do for the church. I want to tell more about that project, but I need to do that another time, I need to get back out to the shop tonight and put in some more hours. I am in the process of putting on the finish, and doing the gold-leaf painting of all of the “Tracry” trim panels (a new word I learned from Roger, the master carver). I have blogged about this project before, in the context of making Crown Molding for the project. I have learned so many things in this project that I can hardly wait to write up the many new challenges I have had to overcome. When the Priest, Father Nick, came to see my progress a few weeks ago, he said, “I have been to Rome, and this work is as good.” Then He reached into his black jacket and pulled out the progress payment check, bowed his head, and handed me the check with both hands, saying, “It is an honor to give you this next progress payment.” I could have floated into the house after that comment, except my big head got caught in the doorway! Try to find something to feel bad about after a compliment like that, despite our “March”.

For those that have followed the personal drama of “March” in our lives, we are heading in next Monday the 16th for a muscle biopsy surgery for Rachel (now 6 years old). The sample will be taken and sent to Mayo Clinic to analyze what she is fighting. The neurologist suspects a genetic muscle disease, but we need the sample analyzed to know for sure.

Rachel is in good spirits, and my going to the hospital for gall bladder surgery last month has been a good prelude to the new family crisis with her. Having her see me do so well, recover quickly, and feel very little pain (that she was told about) has helped grease the skids for her to submit to the surgery. It is a minor surgery, but she will be put out for the operation, and she is, of course, scared about the process. Thanks for your encouragement, prayer, cards, emails, and phone calls. We feel very loved as a family by the lumberjocks crew.

Until next time,
Mark DeCou
www.decoustudio.com

-- Mark DeCou - American Contemporary Craft Artisan - www.decoustudio.com


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Karson

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posted 962 days ago

Mark are prayers are with you, Rachael and all of your family.

-- What happens in the workshop stays in the workshop. No wait that doesn't sound right. Karson Southern Delaware karson_morrison@bigfoot.com †

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scottb

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posted 962 days ago

Good to see you blogging again. Our best, from my family to yours.

-- I am always doing what I cannot do yet, in order to learn how to do it. - Pablo Picasso -- http://blanchardcreative.etsy.com -- http://snbcreative.wordpress.com/

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dennis mitchell

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posted 962 days ago

It’s really really good to hear from you again. It touches my heart to see our skills used to touch others hearts…and maybe their souls to. You have our prayers.

-- http://www.woodsongsfurniture.com

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Roger Strautman

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posted 961 days ago

I’m with Scott, it’s good to see you blogging again! You and your family will still be getting in on my prayer list.

-- " All Things At First Appear Difficult"

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MsDebbieP

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posted 961 days ago

same from me. And I’m glad that you had that little bit of “swelled head moment’ in your life to help keep things in balance for you.

-- ~ Debbie, Canada (http://www.execulink.com/~yohan)

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Greg3G

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posted 961 days ago

Marc, I will keep you and your family in my prayer. I understand the emotions invovled with have a child with a serious illness. In 2001, my son was found to have a brain tumor. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

-- Greg - Charles Town, WV

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oscorner

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posted 958 days ago

I will continue to pray for you and all your family!

-- Jesus is Lord!

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