Last year, a friend at work saw a pen that I made, and suggested that we go in together and make a bunch as office Christmas gifts. I agreed, so we set about making plans. We made about 30, and they were big hits. (At least none were thrown back at us! :o) )
However, he was a bit taken aback by the amount of materials, unfinished projects, and general clutter. He commented that his own shop needed to be cleaned out and reorganized, and suggested that we take turns helping each other with our shops.
The first Saturday I went to his place, and realized that I’d been had! His shop was hardly cluttered, and it took us all of 2 hours to tear through the “clutter”, toss the old, unusable stuff, sweep up, and start planning the new layout that he wanted.
The following Saturday was my turn. Tom showed up bright and early, and we worked all morning long. He questioned me every time I thought about keeping something “because I might need it someday”, and we made three piles: Keep it; sort it later; and haul it to the dump. The dump pile completely filled my 15-passenger Chevy Express 3500 van (seats out). The second pile got sorted out over the next couple of weeks, and most of it got tossed, too.
We’ve done this every month or two, and my shop looks a lot better. Together we have installed the eight drawers in my outfeed table that I had made but never hung; made a plan to install another set of lumber racks; cleaned and cleaned and cleaned; and helped me break through my pack-rat mentality. Without his persistence, I would have never made as much progress. I still have way too much stuff, with tool duplication and an excess of supplies, so I’ll probably start listing things on eBay. I buy quality tools; maybe I’ll make enough cash to buy the materials to fix up the kitchen cabinets.
His shop is really shaping up, too. We’ve had long discussions about tools and machinery, and he just bought a new lathe and sliding miter saw. I’ll go over in a couple of weeks and help him set it all up according to the plan that we made, rearrange the layout, and pipe the dust collection system. His shop will be much more efficient when we’re done.
I guess the moral of the story is that we should be neighborly towards one another and gently offer help when we see a need; and also to put our pride aside and accept help when it is offered. Pay it forward, and be thankful for friends.
-- The days are long and the years are short...

















9 comments so far
ShaneA
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#1 posted 371 days ago
Nice post, congrats on both of you guy’s progress
559dustdesigns
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#2 posted 371 days ago
I wish I had a friend like you have. When I work with some one on a project I tend to get more done and I also make less mistakes.
-- Aaron - central California "If you haven't got the time to do it right, when will you find the time to do it over?"
Phildo92027
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#3 posted 371 days ago
Can I get in line for this?
-- Phil, Near San Diego, CA
Myron Wooley
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#4 posted 371 days ago
Hey, Phil! Any excuse to get together with you is fine with me. Heck, I’d muck out a stable if it meant I got a kitchen pass for the morning. Of course, once my kids found out where I was going, I’d have the entire entourage coming along…
-- The days are long and the years are short...
Douglas Bordner
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#5 posted 371 days ago
Excellent blog. Glad you have such a good friend and that life is good with you!
-- "Bordnerizing" perfectly good lumber for over a decade.
jacob34
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#6 posted 371 days ago
Man I am jealous I don’t even have anyone around who will come chill in my work shop with me, well except the children and they make it lots of fun although with a 8 year old and 4 year old girls I don’t let them clean up much to many sharp objects although they love to play in the saw dust. sounds like you have a good friend nice post.
-- two men walk into a bar the third one ducks, which are you??
stefang
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#7 posted 371 days ago
Well done. I wish I could join you two, but I’m a little way off from your neighborhood. Anyone who loves wood has a hard time throwing it away (wood heads?) so don’t feel bad. it is a problem for most of us.
-- Mike, American in Norway
jerrells
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#8 posted 371 days ago
Often a freind can be more realistic that you. It is great to have a friend like this.
-- Just learning the craft my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ practiced.
PaBull
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#9 posted 365 days ago
Great story. We all need a friend like that to cut through the crap at times.
Pb.
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